Wednesday, December 2, 2009

How to make a move where this girl works?

There is this girl at the mall who i want to ask out. She works at an ice cream place and im just unsure on how to make the first move. Any suggestions?How to make a move where this girl works?
I have asked a girl out at her workplace before. #1 don't give her a note, thats childish. If shes interested and you know it make your order and ask if she wants to get together sometime. If she says yes you might meet her after work or she will give you her number depending on how busy it is.


Might take a couple of visits to make sure shes into you but it will be worth it.How to make a move where this girl works?
step one : funny comment about something on the menu.


step two : playful insult about how lame it is to be working there.


step three : ';I guess I'll have ______';


step four : ???


step five : profit.
slip her a note, with your number on it.
:D
when business is slow keep her company i can tell you that will probally make her day
Compliments! Flirting!





And good luck.
Well yeah... If you want the girl to go with you somewhere, then you need to catch her attention. You yourself would not follow anyone or go anywhere with them unless you were interested right? The same works with the girl. Every time that you see her, you should say something that is smart, funny and to the point where she gets it too. You need to leave her in awe in a good way. Then every time she sees you, she'll be actually glad to see you and want to strike a conversation with you. My suggestion is once you are in the ';zone'; with her, you just ask her out to something simple like coffee or a simple bite to eat at sonic or somewhere. The idea is to get her talking. Probably the most horrible idea for you to actually do is to take her back out into the mall. Movies are usually a horrible first date unless you have met her before for a bit and had dinner before hand. Seeing a movie with another person on a date leaves you in a strange situation where you are left not being able to really talk to the other person for several hours. Also, that would leave you in a bad position because most people get annoyed with the other person when the other person talks. Take it in baby steps.





Good Luck Man!
small talk with her. and just ask when her next day off is and see if she would like to grap a cappucino or something. Theres nothing wrong with asking a honest question.
Have you talked to her already? Does she know you?





Smile, make small talk, ask her about her day and if she likes her job, etc. Hang out at her counter a lot. She'll know you are interested. See how she reacts when you show up.





Later if she seems to like you you can ask her what she likes to do in her spare time, or if she's seen the latest movie. Then you can ask her if she'd like to see it with you, or if you can talk to her more by phone. If she says no and gives you signals that you are becoming a nuisance, back off! You'll find another girl soon.
Just talk to her when she's not busy with customers. She'll let you know if she's interested.
dont buy ten ice creams! then she has to make them. Bring her a tub of ice cream and say, ';I bet you're tired of scooping, so let me give it a try on your break?';
first off there is a fine line between never giving up and becoming a stalker. when asking out women you always have to accept the fact that someone will always say no but that doesnt mean that doesnt mean that everyone will say no. once you have thought about these two things go up to her look her in the eyes and say hey u kno wat yor kinda cute did u maybe want to go to lunch sometime if she gets all akward and doesnt say sure right away count yor losses and dont make it any wierder and bounce
it's corny, but you could ask her if she wants to go for ice cream sometime
maybe go buy ice cream more often and talk to her about how you like her earrings and stuff and then after like a month of that ask her if she wants to hang out on her break and talk to her....then ask her out :P
Ice cream shop???


Oh man, you have tooo many openings right there. My brain hurts!





go for a small talk. scope it out a couple of times. She will notice that you are not there for the ice cream every time and if she stays friendly and talkative you can try to ask her out for a cup of coffee after work or something.
Just walk up to her and start jabbin away....
Write a note with something like ';Hi, I'd like to get to know you better, but I don't want to come across as corny or a weirdo.... What kind of setting would make you comfortable to get to know me? Would you consider going out for coffee sometime? I'll come back sometime this week so you can think about this for a few days...';


Order something and hand her the note and ask ';Could you read this?'; Wait a few days and go back... ask if she's read it.... go from there..

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